Living for God—why is it so difficult? (2024)

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Jesus talked to those who would follow Him about taking up a cross, counting the cost, and giving up everything (Luke 14:25—33). “The way is hard that leads to life,” He said (Matthew 7:14, ESV). Scripture mentions many of God’s people who have walked that hard road—Daniel, Elijah, Joseph, and John the Baptist are just a few.

Romans 7 shows that living for God is difficult for all of us. The apostle Paul wrote of his own struggle: “So I find this law at work: Although I want to do good, evil is right there with me. For in my inner being I delight in God’s law; but I see another law at work in me, waging war against the law of my mind and making me a prisoner of the law of sin at work within me” (verses 22–23).

Before we knew Christ, we could do nothing but sin. We had no choice in the matter. Our motivation was to please ourselves. Even the benevolent acts we performed had a selfish root: we did good things to feel better about ourselves, to assuage guilt, or to enhance our reputation with others. At salvation, the Holy Spirit moves into our spirits. He breaks the power that sin had held over our lives and frees us to obey God. We are now motivated by love rather than guilt (Ezekiel 36:26–27).

But we still face temptation from without and from within (2 Corinthians 7:5). The Bible calls our old sin nature “the flesh” and warns that those who are “in the flesh” cannot please God (Romans 8:8). Even Christians can be “in the flesh.” Although the Holy Spirit indwells the heart of every believer (1 Corinthians 3:16; 6:19), it is up to each person how much control to allow Him to have. We are commanded to “walk in the Spirit and you will not fulfill the lusts of the flesh” (Galatians 5:16, 25). It is only by considering ourselves “crucified with Christ” (Galatians 2:19–20) that we can remain walking in the Spirit.

Jesus did not come to reform our flesh, but to crucify it (Romans 6:6–7). But the flesh does not want to die. The deep desire to please ourselves and compromise with the world does not die an easy death. When we cling to our rights, our opinions, and our agenda, we remain the lords of our own lives. When we lay our will on the altar before God and let go, we die to ourselves. We can then be “filled with the Holy Spirit,” totally controlled by Him (Acts 4:8; 13:52; Ephesians 5:18). It is only through the power of the Holy Spirit that we can live a life that honors God. Only the power of the Spirit can produce good works in us free from legalism and pride.

The desire to be acceptable to the world is the greatest source of compromise for Christians. We don’t want to suffer ridicule or face persecution of any kind. It is more pleasant to gauge ourselves by those around us than by the Word of God (2 Corinthians 10:12). But James 4:4 says, “Anyone who chooses to be a friend of the world becomes an enemy of God.”

When we adopt the false idea that salvation will make our lives easier, we are in for a shock. Those who have come to Christ for the “goodies” He offers often turn away when they realize that accepting Him means they have a new Boss. When Jesus was on the earth, the crowds loved the free food and the miracles, but when He began to talk about the hard things of the gospel, “many of his disciples turned back and no longer followed him” (John 6:66).

We cannot serve both God and ourselves (see Luke 16:13). Living for God means we make a final decision about who is in charge. When our flesh begins to reassert its rights, we take it back to the cross and allow it to die. When sin tempts, the decision has already been made: we seek God’s will over our own. Galatians 1:10 asks, “Am I now trying to win the approval of human beings, or of God? Or am I trying to please people?” The answer is plain: “If I were still trying to please people, I would not be a servant of Christ.”

Living for God may be difficult, but it is not joyless. Paul wrote his most joyful letter while suffering persecution in Rome (see the book of Philippians). We will still face temptation and hardship, but when the glory of God is our focus, living for Him becomes the source of our joy rather than a drudgery (Psalm 100:2; 1 Corinthians 6:20; 1 Peter 4:16).

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Why is God making my life difficult? ›

And, in this, God too is glorified. Therefore, when we see life is difficult, when trials are painful, we are reminded that sin is at work in the world and that judgment is one day coming. God does not owe us a life of ease, rather, these trials testify that we deserve far much worse. Yet, He has given us time.

Why is it so hard for me to serve God? ›

It is not easy serving God because of how He expects us to treat others. The Bible talks about loving family and friends, and there is not too much difficulty with that. However, we're commanded to love our enemies, which is not natural.

What makes living by faith so challenging? ›

Reason 1: A failure of belief itself

It may seem obvious, but if faith is living as if what God says is true, then the first question the struggler must ask is whether they actually do believe God to be true. So often Christians merely parrot what the faithful should believe, but never truly believe it for themselves.

Why is it hard to rely on God? ›

Believing God is hard when we let our thoughts and fears run rampid on an incessant loop inside our heads, instead of bringing them alongside the light of who He says He is, what He says He will do, and how He cares for us.

Why is God giving me such a hard time? ›

God gives us a hard time because that's how he increases the vision for our lives, and uses us for mightier things. If God is giving you a hard time today, it's His way of using your situation to bless the nations.

Why does God give me hardships? ›

God allows us adversity so we can lean upon His strength and become stronger through His Spirit. In Hebrews 12:11, we read that we face adversity and discipline because it is a benefit “for those who have been trained by it.” Our troubles are part of our spiritual training.

Why am I struggling to focus on God? ›

For so many of us, we can admit that we struggle to focus on God, but we don't know why. The reason is we are choosing to invest in ourselves and the things of this world today, rather than choosing to invest in God and things that will last forever, and that was the whole point of this parable.

Why do I struggle to love God? ›

It's hard to love God because we are selfish. I know that sounds harsh and direct but its true. We don't naturally seek God, we naturally seek to please ourselves. Even at times when we're seeking God or seeking to serve others, we're doing it out of selfish motives or a deep-seated need or desire inside of ourselves.

Why is believing in God so hard for me? ›

Another reason we can struggle to trust God is that we have limited understanding. We see so little when it comes to human history. It is hard for us to know how suffering fits in with God's good plan. We are taught to believe that God's plan is good and right, but it's difficult to see that when things are difficult.

What causes lack of faith in God? ›

You might lose faith after: traumatic experiences that make you doubt whether your god is truly benevolent. mental health concerns, such as depression or anxiety. experiencing bereavement and wondering whether life is worthwhile.

Why do I have such a hard time with faith? ›

Struggling with faith is normal; it's part of growing.

It's normal to have questions about God. Sometimes taking faith and the questions it poses seriously means struggling with faith. And sometimes it causes you to have doubts. But as long as there's a kernel of belief left in you, you have not lost your faith.

Why does God give me such a hard life? ›

God allows us to struggle and fail to bring humility and realization we need Him in our lives all day, every day. Sometimes it is hard to see and understand why a loving God allows us to struggle and experience hardship, but it is because of His love for us and His desire to bring us closer to Him he allows it.

Why is God giving me challenges? ›

God knows the level of our faith, but we may not. He often allows challenges, trials, and tests to help us realize what we must work on with Jesus. Our faith is alive and needs to be exercised just like our muscles.

Why is it difficult to let go and let God? ›

When we make the decision to 'let go and let God' we are giving up the control that we presume to have over a given situation in our life. We are kneeling at the Cross and giving God full reign over our lives. Coming into a mindset that we are not in control but God is can be scary when we don't know Him intimately.

Why does God make it hard for me? ›

He does this because, as your Heavenly Father, he knows that if you're going to grow spiritually you have to deal with the sin that's in your life. You can't grow closer to God if you're holding onto sin, bad habits, bad choices, and bad patterns.

Why does God allow suffering in my life? ›

Suffering can protect us, not least from the greater suffering of being alienated from God. It is not evidence of God's lack of care for us,but rather of his love and concern. This is why Paul says, 'Endure hardship as discipline; God is treating you as sons'. The Lord disciplines those he loves (Heb 12:6,7).

What does God say when life gets tough? ›

Isaiah 41:10 (NIV)

So do not fear, for I am with you; do not be dismayed, for I am your God. I will strengthen you and help you; I will uphold you with my righteous right hand.” Fear can overtake us, but God is all-powerful and will offer us all the strength we need.

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